About Love....!!!

What is love? Different people have different views about love. The first thing that comes to most of the people's mind when we talk about love is the feeling towards one's girlfriend or boyfriend, which is of course true. But love is not just limited to that. Love is a strong feeling of affection and care that we can feel for anyone, not necessarily our girlfriend or boyfriend. We love our parents, our friends, relatives and other people that are in our lives and in the same way our parents, friends and relatives love us.

When we love someone, we tend to care about their happiness more than ours, we care about their feelings, worry about them and think about them before doing anything. We can take the example of our parent’s love towards us. They care about our happiness more than theirs, they care about our feelings, worry about us and do the things that are best for us. Similarly, we do the same things for our lovers.

Sometimes we think that we're in love when we are attracted to someone. But just getting attracted is not love. That may just be attraction or infatuation. Love is not just getting attracted to someone or wanting to be with someone. Love is the true feeling of affection which has no boundries and is not bounded by any kind of obligation. We cannot force ourselves into or out of love. Love just happens and we have no control over it.

-Riwaz Manandhar